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Why is this person trying to start trouble with my parents?

She use to be my science teacher. But she got fired. Anyways, I think my dad has been calling her behind my moms back. The story is LONG, and I dont want to type it all. But tonight, she called my mom tonight causing crap between my parents. AND IT WORKED. My dad left to go for a ride. What do I do? I want to cuss her SO bad. I want to tell her how I REALLY feel.

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Answer #1

Like someone else said that your dad obviously has something going on with the teacher. But you don’t know the whole story. Don’t be so quick to place the blame on the teacher. Yes, she know that your dad is married but did your dad forget that he was married. It takes two IT ALWAYS DOES. Be realistic a person can not STEAL your man/woman from you. That person has the choive. If your dad can walk away that easy your parents may been having some issues before this and keeping it from you, trying not to hurt you. When I was really young, about 5, my parents attempted to stay together because they had kids. As a result my older sister is all jacked up in the head. My mom did not leave my dad until he had a child out of wedlock. But when I became a teenager I found out from my mom she knew what he was doing the whole time but she was trying to keep her marriage together while she was doing her dirt too, trying to get him back. The baby was the last straw. Think about. You know your parents as mom and dad, Not them as intimate partners. If you really want to know whats going on ask after they have talked. Don’t talk to the teacher. Keep yourself out of that drama.

Answer #2

I know you do but I think that you should let your parents handle this. But let your dad know how you feel…Let him know what kind of example he is setting for you if he is seeing this lady. And most of all be there for your mom, she must have 101 emotions going through her right now.

Answer #3

tell your mum that the things she’s saying aren’t true!! and tell your father that this teacher is trying to take him from your mum! if I were you, I would hit her to death!!! ugh! this kinda people piss me off! good luck making your parents believe you!! fun mail me and tell me how it goes!

Answer #4

I don’t think that there’s anything that YOU can do. However, it seems like your parents need to sit down and have a talk. You mom might have figured out that there might be something going on between your ex-teacher and your dad. You are not to blame and don’t think that it’s your job to fix it. Let your parents work it out.

Answer #5

Dear imprettycool0, First of all it isn’t the teacher causing problems. The problems are there or the teacher would be able to upset things. Your father wasn’t forced to communicate with her, he wasn’t forced to go and see her. You need to stop…let them settle this. You have only limited knowledge of what has and is happening. By getting involved you may make it worse for your parents. They are obviously going through a bad situation and it isn’t the teachers fault. Let them work it out. Sue…good luck

Answer #6

cures her a out she has no right to do that and if youre parents get mad at you just tell them how you fell about how this bi* is starting sh wit youre parents and if you are not that type of person then get a friend to do it and if they dont you can just give me her num. and l will my self thats the same sh that made my uncle get a divorce

Answer #7

Its always terrible when things like this happen in a family.. however, life happens… and we all have to deal with it.. no matter how hard it is sometimes… It is understandable that you would be very upset over this, however, I agree with the other poster.. that there is very little that you can do, try to continue to be open to both parents… and try to not judge… let them know that you are concerned… and upset… try to be there for them… and if you belive in prayer, here is a link that I use often…

wjcr.org click on prayer…

God be with you…and your family…

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