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Why is it bad that I don't trust no one?

Someone told me that it a bad thing to trust no one. I think it not Cause I learned the closest peoples to you are the ones who going to do you wrong. like my sister if she tell me something umm “ there 50 dollars downstair for you”. I won’t believe it. unless I see it or I got proof of it. it seem like everyone I put my trust into alway stab me in my back. about the only person I can say I sorta trust would be my brother. and if your wondering why I didn’t say my mom ill put it like this. her and my sister gotta be the biggest liars I ever seen. am not saying I don’t love them or nothing like that. I just don’t trust them. my sister do some of the most lowest thing I ever seen. like seriously why so heartless? as far as trusting my friends. or girlfriend. there was only 1 friend I trusted in my life. and as for my girlfriend. last one I trusted. made me look like a fool in the end (< like alway). they may trust me. that ok. I don’t stab someone unless I got a good reason to. but am not trusting anyone unless I know you well enough. so how is it a bad thing not to trust anyone?

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Answer #1

I don’t think it’s a matter of it always being the ones you love that betray your trust, but that is just hurts way more. If you’re unable to trust anyone for any reason, how are you ever going to love anyone to begin with? Try working on a ‘base level’ of trust that you give to most people. Don’t let them in completely until they’ve had a chance to earn additional trust, but you have to give to receive.

Answer #2

lol you sound like my husband. it is not a bad thing. Although it can be hurtful to those you love sometimes. We are happily married but he still does not trust me or anyone around him. It is hard to deal with sometimes but in my case I trust too easily. So I guess its a good thing not to trust people. Dont worry about what anyone says about it. Because you are right. It is a matter of what you beleive.

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