is it bad to being so possessive to the one you love

That definitely is not good for a relationship. Every relationship needs balance and trust. Your partner should get a balance between his own personal life and his time with you, with your constant badgering he does not get time for himself. You are always there. Also, trust. Why do you feel the need to do this? Do you not trust him? Are you just insecure? There’s no relationship without trust so think on it.

thank u so much janice….i hope that will work for me

Wow! That totally reminds me of my ex, and that’s exactly why he’s my ex.

You have got to give this man some space. Imagine if he bugged you as much as you bug him right now. How would you feel?

He doesn’t need a shadow. He needs a partner. Control your possessiveness or you just might end up being the ex.

thanx almira for the advice

You bet :)

and i dont want to lose him thank u for giving me the idea…thank u so much

and i dont want to lose him thank u for giving me the idea…thank u so much

Your welcome and good luck

That’s being a little too possessive. Give him some freedom to live his own life. If he doesn;t answer your calls right away it’s probably because he’s busy at the moment. Calling him over and over will just annoy him, so be patient and he will call you back.

The best thing to keep in mind is that you should treat your boy friend just like you would treat any other family member. Kindly and with patience and love.

Very very very possessive. If you love him and do not want to lose him you need to stop for the very simple fact is that if you don’t and it gets worse he is most likely going to leave you. No one ever wants to be in a relationship like that trust me. What if it was the other way around and he did it to you how would you feel? You have to look at it from his perspective.

thanx for the reply emile13

thank u so much for the advice