why dosent my mom care

ok so my sister is preganant and ever since my mom found out she acts like she hates me. literally. she dosent even relize if I leave the house or anything anymore and if I try to say anything to her she just starts getting really mad at me, cussing me out, slapping me around, and everything. I already do literally like all the chores around the house, I pay for stuff out of my money like grocceries and crap & still she say’s I dont help out enough!

someone please help! thanks.

Answer #1

If I were you I definitely would NOT stop doing everything you do—your mother is in a very volatile state right now. Doing something like that may set her off and you may get hurt. How many years are between you and your sister? Is your Dad in the picture? This one is hard,,,if you go to your counselor at school and you even suggest or lead her to believe abuse is involved, she is mandated BY LAW to report it and you could be placed in foster care. This one is really hard dear…if you went to talk to your counselor—if you want to stay in your home—talk to her but do or say nothing to her about abuse or she WILL report?!! Would it be possible for you to live with your sister, or do you have other family living near by?? Would someone allow you live with them if you tell them the problem? Sorry I can’t come up with anything else ib will def let you know,,.!!!

Answer #2

she’s probably higly excited and can’t wait for the baby.or she is mad that it happen mamaz I know how you feel I’m the middle child and I had it tha worst I hate it bu I pik myself up.Talk to your mom and if she still don’t give her the silent treatment

Answer #3

my response to that, is just try your best to ignore your mom. if she ever says something like you dont do enough, all you gotta do it say “ look who’s talking “ I mean you’re mom loves you, don’t ever think she doesn’t care about you. she doesn’t know how to keep up with everything, she’s probably more then excited for the baby, and after that im sure she’ll pay more attention to you. you don’t have to worry, don’t try doing any self harm that’ll make the situation 30 times worst.

Answer #4

Sometime people have a hard time ajusting to things. There has to be an under the carpet problem that your mom has about the situation. Try to talk to her and if that doesn’t work then stop being a mother to her. You are the child. She needs to provide for you and not have you provide for her. Talk to your sister and see if she can help the situation.

Answer #5

How old is your sister? cause if shes young then your mom might just not know how to deal with it.

Answer #6

thanks to everyone but my sisters happily married & at an appropriate age lol

Answer #7

Your Mother does care it just doesn’t feel like it maybe if you try to talk to her and say something like “ Mom why are you being like this it seems like you don’t care as much as you did please don’t let our relasionship ruin because of my sister” I’d tell your sister to talk to her aswell Good Luck xx Alethea

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