Boyfriend mom doesnt approve of us being together

Ok my boyfriends parents are christain and his father is one of those big minister so you know that they want someone good for the son well I just went back in church and I talked to his mother the other day im 18 and will turn 19 november and he his 26 tis year she basically told me that she doesnt approve of the relationship manily becuase im just going back to church and the age difference she also said that her son his a big man that can make his own decision which is true but she is just giving her input she also said that if me and her son should be together there is nothing she can do but she said that at this present time she doesnt approve of it, im confused what should I do her daughter said that I just should give her some time to come around and just hang aroun the family bt I dont want to feel uncomfortable being around her what shld I do should I end the relationship june will make a year we are together

Answer #1

if you really love him then I would still date him anyways I went through the same thing with my boyfriend and my mom made me break up with him but I dated him behind her back and we are still together today we have been together for a year and a half

Answer #2

well if you really really love him I don’t think you should give up your relationship. In the end I feel if he was to get really serious with a girl and planned to move in with her or wtv yes his parents might not approve but at that point the question really is is he happy, so same thing here if he’S happy then I don’t see why she wouldn’t approve age is only a number and wether you just started to go to church again or not shouldn’t really matter becuase sometimes the nicest most trust worthy people aren’t always the ones attending church, soo she should keep that in mind, but maybe a little time would do her well.

Answer #3

it depends… do you really really love him

because if it were me and I really loved him then I would just put up with the uncomfortableness for a little bit, she will come around and I wouldnt throw away a year cause she doesnt approve.

if she doesnt come around then just keep in mind you are in a relationship with him not his mom so as she said he is a grown man and you are both adults and can make up you own mind

dont let her effect your decion

Answer #4

let her know that you love him and really want to be with him . have your boyfriend talk to his parents and let them know how happy he is with you. maybe he can help. dont be puchy though. when you talk to his parents, talk about the things that interest them.

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