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Why does it hurt my girlfriend when I try to finger her?

I’ve tried to be really gentle and waited until she’s really wet but whenever I actually do it it hurts her; I want to give her pleasure but it is hurting her and I don’t know how to stop it. She doesnt masterbate but shes had a boyfriend before and the’ve done this sort of thing so it not like its her fisrt time so please help me out.

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Answer #1

Tell her to help you put your fingers in the right place. She knows where she likes it best, you might be putting it in a slitely different spot because that is what another girl liked but you have to find out where she likes it.

Answer #2

well maybe its been a while since she’s done it..and maybe she got really tight! yea like skye dez smiles said start off with one finger..

Answer #3

hmm, are you using one finger or two? maybe just start off getting her really wet as you said and just use one finger at first and if your doing that already then im not too sure on the answer on this one haha.

Answer #4

I’ve only been using one finger from the start and it is still hurting her

Answer #5

dude, I have the same problem. My girlfriend of 5 months just told me it’s always hurt. She says just be really gentle, smooth, slow and don’t go deep and when she starts to moan don’t go crazy.

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