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Why do I like a 25 year old when I'm 14?

This is going to sound extremely dumb and stupid, but I met some older guy. I know you’re already shaking your head like, WTF. But he’s 25, I’m 14, we’ve pretty much established that if we’re together or anything like that he’s pretty much damned.We clicked right away and he has my number and we talk/text a lot. We both like 80’s music but still listen to pretty much everything, we get along GREAT. He’s everything I love in a guy and something I’ve never found in previous relationships with guys that are 14-20(Yep I’ve been through pretty much every age group except pedos.)

You can give me the, ‘’He’s probably a pedo!” No, he’s not, I’m the dumby pushing everything but I don’t know why. Before you tell me I’m immature or anything, I happen to KNOW for sure that I’m quite mature for my age. I just…my heart’s kind of wanting to lead my head right now. I’m trying REALLY hard not to get a crush on him. He said I’m an awesome girl but he knows he can’t get a crush on me. Why does life have to fail so bad?

We talk pretty dirty, I mean it’s all harmless jokes. But I kind of flirt too. I really want to know what the heck is wrong with me.

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Answer #1

lol girls just like older guys man im 15 and I only like guys who are 18 or older because guys my age are stupid and older guys are always better in bed;) and dont listen to teethmarks she just has a stick up her a**

Answer #2

uh I don’t know thats pretty old and your pretty young. hes consider a pedafile if hes over 18 and mite hook up wit a 14 yr old. you should get over him and find someone wit similar interests your age

Answer #3

nothings wrong but you need to know the difference between a crush and something worth going after…I know its not what you want but be careful and the dirty talk should be cautioned he knows your 14 and hes 25 he could go to jail just be careful use your head more here use your heart later …

Answer #4

@Teethmarkss Not the answer I was looking for, shouldn’t your mouth be up your own a** along with that big head of yours? ._.;

@sweetie408 If I liked guys my age…haha, I’d have to be pretty stupid. How old are you? Times have changed, people my age are a billion times more stupid than ever. Edit: MOST.

@hecallsmewifey the dirty talk IS cautioned, really I do it with everyone, really it’s just me making jokes/puns/smexual innuendos for kicks. Really…my question should be, is it wrong if we like each other? Just wondering.

Answer #5

eww that’s not normal lol

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