is my 15 year old sister engaged to a 25 year old man?

today i read through my sisters text messages (dont judge me) and i found comments from a guy called alex. i think i know who this alex guy is but the texts i read said that she didnt want to get back with him but he still liked her. but i read texts saing “even though were not together, your still my fiance”. when i read this i broke down into tears. the thing is, if she is still seeing this guy, shes cheating on him with a 19 year old. i like the guy whos 19 but i hate the 24 year old. to make thigs worse he has a CRB check wich is confirmed but hes lied into the whole thing. please tell me im wrong and there not together, i dont want her to throw my life away :’(

Answer #1

In most countries, that wouldn’t be legal…and, you HAVE to talk to your parents about this, since you’re both underage and a 25 year old has NO business attempting to hook up, OR marry, a 15 year old.

Answer #2

as jeremy said and… im begging you to go and report him to the police

Answer #3

I met my boyfriend when i was 15, theres 14 years difference. My sister tried grassin me up to my mum. We dont speak now!

Answer #4

P.S for her to be ‘engaged’ already and be cheatin on him with someone else, she sounds like a hoe.

Answer #5

I agree with Jeremy. But I suggest perhaps talking to your sister about this. Perhaps this is some sort of misunderstanding, or it not as it seems. Perhaps it is, I don’t know. I think that you should try to clear things though with your sister, or tell your parents possibly.

Answer #6

There is no legal minimum age for getting engaged. There are minimum ages for getting married. I remember a case where a 12 year old girl got engaged to an adult but didn’t marry until she was legal age to. Nobody outside her fiance thought she was serious about her engagement but she did go through with it years later. You are in a better position than us to judge the seriousness of this engagement.

If your 15 year old sister already had relations with the 25 year old that would probably be illegal (family code varies by state but I think this would qualify as statutory anywhere). Even though the 25 year old sounds like a creep you should consider what is best for your sister as well before getting law enforcement involved.

Answer #7

that guy doesnt sound like he deserve ur sister..hes trying to work out things according to the text message and she sounds like a s!ut cheating on him

Answer #8

yes they can be engaged but they cant get married until she is of age.. that is usually 17 or 18. in South carolina where i am from its 17

Answer #9

“the texts i read said that she didnt want to get back with him but he still liked her” …………. so why are there people callin her a hoe? how is she cheatin on the guy if she doesnt even wanna get back with him? doesnt sound to me like shes interested in marryin the 25yro stalker boy he’s bein all sentimental tryin to fix things and shes still not interested, so he needs to go away and find somebody his age and stop bein obsessed w/ the underaged girl who is no longer interested. come on people… really

Answer #10

no i dont think so, not if she doesnt wanna get back with him, which she aparently said in the text messages, what kind of engagement is that. sounds more like shes tryin to move on and hes dwelling

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