Why do I feel sad because my 15 year old wants to live w/ his dad?

I dont know what it would be like to watch an offspring just get up and leave… it must be hard even though you know when and where it will be happening

telling you to put it to the back of your head is impossible I know…

would it help if you and your son arranged ASAP the days and times he would come and visit you after his move?

and dont forget you could also arrange days out at theme parks and such on the days he doesnt see you…

so for argument sake if you had the lil fella every weekend you can arrange (when hes on a school holiday) to go to a theme park or anything of his choice…

im not a parent so im not very gd :)

You just have to know that he want’s a chanche that he does love you but also there comes a time when we all need a time when we need the other perent too!

Don’t be sad!!:( he does love you is just that when we are growing up I now that we want to expiriance new things. He is 15 and he want also to let his dad know that he loves him too!! So dont be sad he just wants a chanche but he love you:)

Of course you’re going to be sad about this.. but your son loves you very much and he’s not leaving because of you. He’s growing up and you just have to let him make decisions for himself sometimes.. I wish my dad supported my decision to live with my mom the way you are. It seems like you guys have a really good relationship and although it’s hard for you, just keep supporting him. You’ll be okay. :)

hi

im a boy round about the same age and really in the same siuation as your son, my parents split up and still get on great like you do with your ex

I cant say you will feel better stright away but soon you will and to me you doing a great thing it looks like he wants to go to see his friend an so on like you said but if you think about it your helping him be a man in a way, I no it sounds stupied but really think if he hangs with his dad he will see how a man acts an he will soon act more like a man by studying his dad which is good if you think about it

and dont worry it dosent sme that far away an he will come to see you and also this give you a chance to do like date if you dont have a boyfriend or if you do them be able to get out more with him, really what im saying is you have a chance to do more an if I was you I would take it an this will help you take you mind off him leaving

from my view your a great mum and he is lucky to have you and dont worry what ever happens you still his mum an from what my mother told me, mum has this thing around them that makes there kids feel safe and happy an because of that he will still come to you somthing if he need help

hoped I help

Wow. I appreciate the story about you and your son. It sounds like you have raised him well.

You are making the right decision. From your story, it seems that everything will be okay.

– a divorced dad