What is happening to our relationship?

My husband says that he loves me and that I mean everything to him. I sometimes feel that he may have found someone else to confide in. I’ve saw some things that made me suspicious and he seems to be distant from me. Although we are in the militray lifestyle and his deployment is soon to come. He has a lot of things that he wants to accomplish and because of that he is overwhelmed and fustrated. He’s even told me that cuddling at this point is not important to him. I flabergasted at that statement. I’m not sure what to do, what do you think is happening to us.

Answer #1

Well… In the last 5 months.. I’ve watched my dad’s friend’s marrage go down the drain.. It was all because the guy didn’t feel loved… so he cheated.. and then beat his wife.. I don’t know I think he’s psycho but anyways…ask him not us.. tell him you feel drifted.. I do that with my boyfriend if I feel he’s been ignoring me.. which wasn’t his entention at all.. guys are guys and they just forget things.. You just need to talk… and try to set a day when it’s just you and him so you guys can relax… and make sure he knows how you feel.

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