What does he expect!!!?

Oh so I got asked out by a boy last week and I sed yh but the day he asked me out he sed not to tell anyone for a bit.but I told my mate. Thn my mae starting talking 2 him and told him I’d told her so the day after he sed he was joking to me after he found out I’d told my mate. So I just left it. Now when I see him at school when I look away from him and he looks at me my mate told me. Then today I was talking to my little brother I’m in yr11 and he’s in yr7 so I was luking down(he’s small!) and I loked up and gazzi(nickname) was just walking past me and I luked at him this time but he kinda smiled at me and I just blanked him. Does he just expect me to be ok with him?

Answer #1

he was joking bout asking me out!

Answer #2

thank you!! I did confront him and he sed he was sorry but he did it because he liked me but didn’t want me to tell nobody till it was serious but he dint know that my friend was with me and he dint want her 2 know he thought she wud tell his mates. but it is finshed now because I have moved schools so we just talk as mates on facebok now. thank youuu!!! xxx

Answer #3

well that’s not good, I’m very sorry to hear that. He was probably asking you out because he liked you but decided that it wasn’t okay to be seen with you socially, and decided it was best to cut you off, and just be friends. or maybe he was just kidding to mess with you. I know it hurts and I don’t profess to be an expert but I would say confront him and then you’ll get your answer soon enough

Answer #4

did he say he was joking about asking you out or joking about not telling anyone. If he was joking about asking you out, that’s just mean and stupid. If he was joking about not telling anyone, then he’s just a little confusing at best. I’ve been in this scenario before, and the way it played out was very confusing, this girl told me to ask her out and not to tell anyone, so I did cause I was going to anyway, and then the next day I told my best friend but told him to tell absolutely no-one, and he didn’t I was with him all day, then we walked by her and he winked at her with a goofy smile kinda like “nice job Katie” (that was her name), then she whips around and comes straight at me like a very beautiful missile and she says, did you tell him? I told you not to tell anyone, we’re through if you can’t even follow a simple instruction like that. Turns out, she was testing my loyalty to see whether later in the relationship, I would cheat on her which is untrusting and paranoid at best. Anyway, if he’s trying to test your relationship, then he’s not worth your time. I think the best course of action would be to sit him down and talk to him about his intentions and if you scare him off, he wasn’t that into you in the first place, if he stays and talks with you, well then you will have answered your very own question.

I hope I was able to help.

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