Who would you pick, friend or family?

I WAS HOPEING I DID THE RIGHT DECISION.

She was being insensitive and not a good friend - wrong not to contact you to find out the seriousness of the situation and to ensure you’re ok - immature / selfish - you did the right thing notifying her you couldn’t attend - hopefully, she’ll come around and realize it and all works out - I wish you the best !!

THANK YOU FOR THE ADVICE. IT’S JUST NOT EASY YA KNOW BUT SHE CAN GO TO SHE DDOOUUBBLLEE HOCKEY STICKS I THINK I’M ABOUT DON’T WITH MY BEST FRIEND

definitely grandma. I’m sorry to be so harsh about this.. but what if (god forbid) your grandma dies when your at the reception? how guilty would you feel? if your friend was truly a friend, she would understand. good luck on your desicion..

Grandma just tell her NICELY that this is important to you and ask her “what would you do”? hope I helpd if I didnt teribly sorry

I would pick family over friends any day. especially with something like this. You grandma needed you. it’s really your friends fault she should have been more sensitive and asked you about your grandma and how she was doing instead of flipping out on you about the stupid wedding reception. I think she’ll realize in time that she was wrong and call you to apologize. I hope your grandma is okay!!

good choice…good for you, she doesn sound like much of a friend

You did the right thing. She did the wrong thing.

u did! horray for U