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I am in love with my sixteen year old cousin. I am thirteen, but I don't know if it is wrong to like him. He is perfect!! I can tell he likes me, and I like him, but is it wrong to be liking him?
He has a different last name than I do, but is still part of the family by marriage. I never see him though because he is always grounded from failing classes. He is just lazy.
Please tell me I'm not insane. I get that a lot.
It sounds like you are in love in the way that is really just a puppy love. It's still the same feeling but you really can't stop thinking about him and can't imagine being with anyone else. Basically the difference between ''evolved'' love and puppy love is that puppy love loses all common sense and true focus. So consider the fact that he fails classes and is lazy. Do you want to help him? Do you want to forget about him and help yourself? Do you even care what he does with his life, as long as you can be with him? Questions like those would help you tremendously. The whole cousin thing is fine. I think it's only illegal to have kids with cousin. Once you can proudly say you are in love with him and stand up for it, then you know it is bigger than puppy love. Of course I am just guessing you have bad puppy love because of the way you talk and how I've had it before too...
my mates mom and dad are cousins... they married and had 2 kids
its perfectly fine to love and marry a cousin...
but heres the wrong thing and I've said it so many times...
hes 16 and your 13 and the age bracket is against the law
if he touches you sexualy that immediately makes him a sex offender
my advice is make sure nothing happens untill your at least 16 otherwise, well see above.. 0_o
mby you should try dating other people and flirting with people out of your family but if you 100% positive you love him you should talk to him about it and if it works out mby you should confront the rest of your family. But I would recomend dating someone your age and out of your family
So he is not your family from blood? I guess you can, but it also may be because he is sixteen and you know he just looks hot know and may not when you get older... Meaby you should wait a little longer... just to see what is really in your heart...
GOOD LUCK:)
I don't think it's puppy luv. But I don't know. But I know fo sho he likes me because I heard him talking on the phone with his cousin about me saying really nice things.
sure you can like your cousin.. emotions are like an ocean, you can't control where it goes or what rock it clashes on (:
It is wrong, he is still related to you, know matter if he has a different last name.
