How does a person deal with family who is not good for them?

Well, I can relate to what you’re asking in this question since I’m cut off from my own family. I know that I need them but, I’ve had problems with them growing up. now that I’m a college student, my family doesn’t support me in anyway. The reason why I’m not seeing my family because I had to put a PPO against my father for doing allot of Fondling, touching, ECT. when I was a child, things were alright since I was adopted from China. I don’t speak the language anymore so, I’m an American Citizen. I tried telling certain members of my family my problems but, you don’t get anywhere with them. here are some things not to tell family: Don’t tell personal feelings, keep some personal things like you’re life a secret, don’t tell them you’re moving out, that’s my opinion, or, don’t tell them you’re other secrets. Things to tell family are, let them know that you received a good grade in school, try to talk to them about family issues, tell them you’re going to school, tell them you’re going to get a full time job, things like that. Those are things that I would try to tell mine but, I’m sure they won’t listen. I tried to be myself when I lived with my parents but, that never seemed to work since I was physically, and verbally abused. I now live on my own and, proud of it. When I was 17, I wanted to comitt suicide since my parents and one of my sisters didn’t make me feel welcome. Now, that I moved out from that terrible roof, I have people that embrace me like family and, that’s my church. I love my church since, now, that I moved out, I can be myself. I won’t forgive my family for the things they’ve done, but, I’ll learn. I thought they were my friends but, well, that never happened.