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Is there something wrong with me?

I have had sexual relations with this girl I am in love with but since the most recent time I had sex with her all I do is fantasies about her. I don’t want to just have a sexual relationship with her she mean a lot more than someone just to have sex with after all I lover her to death. So my question is if there something wrong with me since I have been fantasizing about the most recent time I had sex with her???

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Answer #1

this is TOTALLY normal.

can I make a suggestion though? tell her exactly what you told us. tell her you lover her…you love having sex with her so much that you fantasize about her all day. but, tell her that you don’t just want sex, you want an actual relationship. you want to be the one she goes to when she gets dissapointed and needs help, you want to be the one that holds her in your arms, you want to be the one that brings her flowers for no reason other than when you saw them they reminded you of her. just tell her exactly what you want out of this relationship with her. she’ll want to hear it.

Answer #2

No there is nothing wrong but you do need to spend sometime with her and not be thinking bout sex all the time if not she’ll think that’s all you want from her

Answer #3

There isn’t anything wrong with you. You just need something to occupy your mind. Don’t let it become to much about sx. Make a point to talk to her on the phone if you can’t be around her without touching her. Talk to her after sx. Think about the things you like about her that have nothing to do with s*x.

Answer #4

dude, your question makes no sense. be more specific and use punctuation!!!

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