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Whats up with my parents acting so annoying?

Whats up with my parents being so stupid? Im 18. And they argue about everything I try to clean everything and my mom complains bec I didnt do it the way she likes it then I talk to my boyfriend late a night like at 10 or 11 for like 15mins and they complain theyre gonna take my phone away they dont even pay for my phone I pay for my phone. What can I do to just tell them to let me be. They let me do anything. And they complain im a bad child when I get straight as and im good in school and at home I dont like parties and I dont drink I dont do drugs or hang out till late. Oh and my curfew is at 9:30pm and im 18..help?

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Maybe you need to sit down with your parents and have a a heart to heart. Just be honest and explain to them that you love them to death and respect them profoundly but that they are suffocating you. Tell them that you just need some room to breather and recognition for what you do get right. Tell them exactly how you feel, that’s what growing up is about, learning to communicate and stand up for oneself. I’m sure they don’t realize what they are doing and even though you are 18 they probably only see their little girl. Help them understand that you will always be their daughter but that you are now a young woman, no more a little girl.

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