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What to do with my older brother?!?!?

Im gunna die here!!! Literally!!! My brother treats me likde shyytt and he aint eva nice to me!!! But the problem is, he is one of my best friends and so is my mom and my momma and him fight lots too, what should I do??? Mom is a single parent that has 3 back surgeries and the doctor said that the stress is (literally) killing her… It is too much for her poor heart to handle!!!

I need help!!!

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Answer #1

thank you sooo much, but ummm, usually when I try to tell him how I feel he says your gay or your retarted and shyt like that!!! </3

Answer #2

I think you need to redefine the words best friend. Best friends do not hurt you. I think it’s kinda one of the core requirements. He needs to not touch you. If he does, you need to call the cops. Perhaps a talking to about proper boundaries (I.e. do not hit your sister) is required here.

Answer #3

haha, you would love that… I need actual advice, im 14 I cant be living in these conditions, I mean he’ll be 16 nov.5th!!! then ill have a 16 yr old trying to kill me, but at the same time be my best frined!!!

Answer #4

Do you guys have aregular relationship when thinsh are just cool down? If yes talk to him when everybody is calmed down and let him know about you feelings, let him know that you need all this to end because of how hart things are getting for you! If he really does love you and you love him as a brother than you guys wii be able to understand eachother. Think of the bright side, it’s not your mom like it is whit me!

GOOD LUCK!:)

Answer #5

have momma kick him out and let me move in…?

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