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What should I do when my fiance won't include me in her family's life?

today my fiances dad is coming into town me and my fiance is geting marride in 7 mons we had the whole day plande I was going to make her dinner and we were sposed to go chritmas shoping. at about 5 today we put up our decorations and started dinner when her brother pulled up and said your dad wants you to go to l a x whith us so lets go she was trying to explain we were going to eat and she would se him tomowwer hay said your stupid and lets go so she came in and told me what was going on and I told her well I have work tomowwer so why woudent you see him tomowero she left saying dont be made at me ill be home at 2 in the morning becase her brother started fighting with her shold I be mad that im going to marry hert in less then 7 months that they dident invite me to go plus shold I be mad that she up and left after we made plans to do this stuff today I need youer help thanks

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Answer #1

i can understand your frustration..plans were made and she shouldnt have uped and left when it the matter was stil not discussed..but you a.lso need to see her point of view you need to understand just why she did go and why it was imprtant for her to suddenly drop her plans originally arranged..secondly if you feel hurt or offended in the matter of not being invited bring it up now there is no point mentioning it after the wedding as it would cause furthur friction between you and your fiance aswel as your in-laws..as the time is during closer to the wedding you both wil be under alot of strain and pressure i would reccomend you talk to your fiance and remember to also listen to what she has to say too it is vitally important you can understand each other and over come your problems/difficulties/issues rationally..i hope this has helped you and good luck with the wedding

Answer #2

O brother…..Just sleep on it….It happens for a reason…

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