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How can I make new friends if my other friends won't let me?

I dont know what to do. I have 3 girls that im really close to. theyre all in my class and weve been friends since middle school. they used to make fun of me and leave me out all the time. but they started being nicer and including me in stuff. we al got really close. only now theyre starting to do what they used to again. not including me in anything they do and making me feel like sh*t because of the stuff they say about me. everyone in my family says I need to find new friends. but I cant because theyd make my life horrible if I stopped hanging out with them what should I do?

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Answer #1

they are toying wit your emotions your best leaving them and if they do get all mad and make your life a living hell well like claire said. let your new friends stick up for you. but the last thing you shoule worry about is their emotions if they trully dont care about urs/.

Answer #2

dump them they definitly are not your friends because friends don’t do that and if they don’t like it that you’ve moved on for get them because your new friends willstick up for you because thats what real friends do so go find them new friends.good luck.

Answer #3

You can’t just drop them totally right away. That’s what would cause you grief. What you need to do is hang with other people on the side while you hang with these chicks and then just hang out less often until you aren’t at all, if that’s what you really want to get out of all of this. I’m not sure if they’re the best of friends to have but you might consider keeping them, but having a backbone and telling them off. Don’t get upset or anything but just tell them how things are if you want to keep them as friends. So there’s two paths you can take. Good luck babe.

Answer #4

They’re making your life horrible now, so what’s the difference?

Have some pride in yourself and don’t take any crap from anyone. Move on.

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