What should I do when I don't feel comfortable around moms boyfriend?

I don’t know what to do anymore . I feel super uncomfortable around my moms boyfriend . I feel like he’s always trying to see me when I’m changing in my room after a shower . The reason or that is because my room is right next to my moms and my door doesn’t close for some reason . So I have a mirror right there by my door and I’m not sure if you can see my full room through it from my moms room but he’ll randomly go into the room and stand there because I can see him in the reflection . I get real creeped out but I don’t want to say anything . I’ll also be in my moms room watching tv and he’ll come in there and tickle me because he knows I don’t like to be tickled but he’ll like go on top of me and tickle me . It’s really weird and uncomfortable . I’m still only a young teenager by the way . I just don’t want to tell my mom because she’s literally madly in love with him . I don’t know what to do anymore because I’m sick of feeling awkward in my own house .

Answer #1

Tell her. She will understand. My friend went through this…and she ended up getting raped. Please, tell her. Dont wait. I dont want that to happen, please.

Answer #2

I know I had a step dad the same way. And he took it to bigger things it was horrable! TELL YOUR MOM. Dont have this be somethig you regret Plese tell your mom.

Answer #3

yeah it wouldnt suprise me if he was on some dumb shyt, I wouldnt even confront him in case he took it the wrong way and did somethin but tell your mama

Answer #4

Stand up for yourself, and to him if you can see him looking at you getting changed, just say :”Im getting CHANGED!!” but dont be too rude, because thats not nice (you never know it might be a coincidence that hes in the room) And after you let him know that you know about what he’s doing, HE’LL feel awkward. But if it continues, Tell Your Mum how you feel

Answer #5

it might be weird telling your mom, but you should really talk to her about it. thats super creepy of him. if that doesn’t work, you can scream at him if you see him watching you, and your mom will notice somthings up!

Answer #6

you are going to have to tell your mother he sounds like he warmin up to have you when he gets bored with your mom with or without your consent, doesnt that scare you? you could be sleeping and he could touch you tell your mom about a fictional friend who has the same problem and if you are brave enough ask her what she would do in a situation like that make sure she tells you that she loves you first I am sure you do not want him to your first

Answer #7

Tell your mom right now…he is only a “boyfriend”, not her husband …You don’t have to make accusations…just tell her how you “feel”. Trust your gut instincts, they are usually right.

Keeping silent on something like this might have far greater ramifications down the road, than speaking up and feeling uncomfortable for the moment.

Listen to Ashley, she lived it, and she knows what happens when you keep silent on big stuff like this.

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Answer #8

Wow. Okay… as a 30 year old guy, I can tell you that that is absolutely NOT okay.

You need to get some alone time with your mom as soon as possible! Tonight if you can. Tell her that you need to talk to her about something that she doesn’t want to hear.

Tell her all the things her boyfriend has done.

She may be shocked, and she might not want to believe you. Tell her that you are absolutely certain that this is inappropriate behavior, and that you are scared for yourself, and also angry that he doesn’t respect your mom enough to stay away from her daughter.

If she is a good mother, she will get rid of the jerk IMMEDIATELY. If she doesn’t come back here for more advice.

YOU ABSOLUTELY NEED TO TELL HER (when he isn’t around).

Answer #9

I told my mom. her ex boyfriend molested me when I was 5 it went on for a year and she said I was lying. Trust me it may be hard but its the best thing. I mean I have been raped 3 times. and I still live with my mom and I feel uncomfortable as hell. This chick she talks to wants to please me and she is like 30 or something and im 17. her current boyfriend likes the whole Father Daughter sex thing. im really scared. my boyfriend is trying to get me out thoughh. so trust me I know what your going throughh. just tell you mom. because Rape is not fun. ever.

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