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my boyfriend is in jail and keeps acusing me of cheating

hi Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years and my first sexual partner and he went to jail about 2 months ago and I knew he had cheated on me befor he went but he would neva admit it so I asked him while he was in there and he wrote me a letter confessing to everything I know he is still lieing about a few thing but I know I will neva get the rest out of him Now he has come clean he is accusing me of sleeping with a mate of his we used to live with and a whole heap of other people I haven’t even been anywere except my bestfriends house or with my mum so he wouldn’t think I am cheating on him I have tried to explain to him I hated his mate since the 1st tim ei met him and onky lived there to be close to him and that I want him to be the only guy I ever sleep with but he doesn’t believ it . he’s in there for 2 and a half years and I don’t want to be hearing the same things for 2 and half years about him thinking I am cheating on him is there anyway I can prove to him I am not cheating on him???

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Answer #1

I dont no if theres any way you can make him believe but you could tell his mate to go there and then make him say that he didnt and that your discusted w/ each other but I guess if he doesnt trust you then its probebly not a good idea to b with him in the first place ya no thats what relationships are based on I mean if you cant trust each other then your not gonna get that far

Answer #2

u say you dont want 2 get it 4 the next 2 years, but you will. I did when my boyfriend went inside, I had to break up with him.. it was hard but so many people gossip and he was always thinking stuff, so if they cant trust you the best thing to do is to see if you can carry on when hes out or move on. if theres no trust theres nothing. gd luck x

Answer #3

there’s no other way than keep on repeating yourself.. you have to do nothin’.. he may take what you say, or leave it.. it’s up to him. but be sure you’re not doin’ anything behind his back..

Answer #4

DUMP HIM 1st he cheated on you u should have dumped then already an now hes saying your cheating on him he dosent trust you because he wasnt faithful an now he feels guilty an now hes accusing you of cheating get out of it while you can good luck

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