Is this going to work out if he still sees her?

what should i do i feel so sad and worried my soon to be husband is in a house with a girl he was going to marry before he met me and he swears he loves me only and i belvie him but i dont i dont get it myself i trust him but i really love him and im worried he will love her not me and i feel he only wants u know what and when we talk on the internet we dont have alot to talk about then its all about u know what so i dont know what i should do i love him very much but im wondering if itll work out plz help me?

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Answer #1

If you really love and trust your soon to be husband then i think you should have no doubt that he will betray you in any way with this other girl. But if you haven’t told him how you feel about him being with this other girl, then i think you should to clear the air.

On the other hand if you want it to realy work out between the two of you, you should consider taking account of his vowe that he only loves you. Personally if you constantly nag him about this other girl or that he will leave you for her then i think you will only distance him from you and give him reason to believe that you dont trust him.

However if you have reason to believe that he may be cheating on you. confront him and take it from there, (the decision lies in your hands).

Moving on, if your struggling to communicate with him through the internet, consider asking him open questions such as, how was your day today, what did you do, how have you been etc.

Hope i have helped you.

Answer #2

Well, if thats all he’s talking about when he talks to you, you need to let him go. Cause he ain’t interested in you he’s just gonna use YOU. Remember you can’t love a person more than yourself. Never lower your standards for anyone, its not worth it. Your gonna feel like sh** in tha end

Answer #3

Well, I think there are a few issues going on here.

Why is he living with her?
Why do you talk on the internet? Do you live near each other?
If you’re uncomfortable by his being near this girl, that sounds like a sign that you don’t fully trust him.
If you two don’t have much to talk about, it could mean you’re not very close or don’t have much in common.

So I would suggest taking a step back and looking at the relationship. Do you trust him completely? Do you believe he cares for you? Do you have things in common? Do you feel you have a strong relationship?

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