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Should I sleep with my boyfriend or wait?

My name is Alexandra, im 13 years old and im a virgin. People don’t believe me when I tell them that I am, but as long as I know that I am it fine. Well, you see I have this boyfriend I have been going out with him for 2 years!!!His name is Luis. I know that he really loves, he has meet my parents and everything. My daddy sees him as a son. One time my dad had a party and he took him in his room and was like, “I know whats going on between you two and I trust you”, so I guess that that was a good thing. But the thing is that I don’t know if I am really in love with him, I mean when I kiss him or see him I do feel butterflies in my stomach. And we pretend that we have a baby together, hahah , right now our baby is 2 weeks old with 5 days but we still don’t know if its a girl or a boy. I know we are crazy! And one day we were just talking about the baby, and he was like would you like it for it to become true, and I was like sure but not the baby part, well not yet not at this age. I mean what should I do, I really do want to do it to see how it feels, and besides all my other friends are like holes ( not to be mean) but its cause they have all ready done it with more than 4 different guys. So what should I do should I lose it or not or should I wait a few more years cause he told me that he would wait for me as long as possible. I still want to be a virgin cause I mean boys treat you with more respect.Well I hope that you can answer my question soon,and Thank you

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Answer #1

You are only thirteen, and I think a baby would be a lot better off with a 20-year-old mother, at least. It’s great that you have such an awesome boyfriend! Lucky you!

Incidentally, people don’t believe you’re a virgin? You’re 13! It’s normal!

Answer #2

i think that u a younger to expericence life itsself so take all the time in the world an becareful not becuz ur freinds do it for u to do it to take ur time it doesnt run away its there forever good luck girl

Answer #3

u know wat ur 13 ur still a baby but if u decide that ur ready for sex then go for it make sure that ur ready if u have any doubts about it dont do it also have live a word that if u decide ur movin to fast u can stop u know wat i mean take urtime and i have fun wait til ur compleatly ready i waited till i was 20 u do it on ur owhn timing whe itz the right time ull know

Answer #4

ur 13 years old,hormons are most likley to kick in when this guy comes around so it may be hard to not sleep with him,even though i think u shouldn’t

Answer #5

You should go with how you feel. You are ONLY 13. That is very young to start having sex. ALot of things can change between you and him if you do….it could be good or it could be bad. If he is willing to wait then i think you should !!

Answer #6

well personally i think that u are too young. but ask urself are u really in love and do u trust him. if u are really not sure take the lust or love quiz on http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/sexuallyactive/ht/havesexht.htm. u may think that this is so stupid but it is really acurate. tell me how it goes.

Answer #7

I personally thinks it totally up to you when you feel comfortable an ready then it will happen.. If you want to still be a virgin there is nothing wrong with waiting an i would sagest sence you are only 13 i would wait another yr or so. but if you both truely love each other an u r comfortable enough to do it then go for it… good luck

love always megan

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