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Is it ok to encourage your boyfriend if you dont want to sleep wit

Me and my boyfriend have been spending a lot of time together recently and we kissed for ages and got half naked. I’m leading him on and he gets so horny but I dont want to sleep with him until I feel I know him better. Should I encourage the foreplay? Is it wrong?

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Answer #1

He says that he’s cool with whatever i wanna do. I don’t wanna rush into things as this is the first guy i’ve properly been intimate with (some oral stuff has happened) and he’s had loads of girlfriends. Thanks for all of your advice it really is appreciated! x

Answer #2

bigandripped is wrong. men can wait for as long as you want them. If he doesnt want to he isnt worth it. obviously my. bigandripped ( which i doubt he is) is just a horny chauvinist pig.

Answer #3

What is Bigandripped talking about? Dont listen to him whatsoever, not many guys are like him. If you dont want to, dont do it, and he will just have to accept that until your ready. I know its easier said than done, but dont risk hurting yourself mentally if your not ready.

Answer #4

Just make sure you tell him that is as far as you want to go for now. I doubt he will have much of a problem with getting as far as he is. Hold your ground, let him know your mind is made up until you are ready.

Answer #5

(I was referring to bigandripped)

Answer #6

But they will wait long enough. Some of them are just jerks… your a perfect example.

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