What should I do, 18 years old and I want a baby?

I think that if you can support the baby and ue b/f wants one too I dont see the problem your an adult and its your life… Good luck

What’s to be confused over? You’re an adult and (I assume) he is too. Yes, it’s a little young by modern standards, but if you have support and are able to provide for its upbringing, what’s the problem?

Maybe you should wait first.. like get a career, your own house, a car, and everything you need first. Then you can take better care of your baby and give he/she whatever they need. A good school, and a place that you want to live in. I have thought about that too, but being only 18 I’m not a fully independent person yet.

Thanks dreama, your advice made me feel so much better, and to know that I’m not alone. It’s hard, but I’m going to try and hold off for as long as I can until I too am financially stable. I wish you all the best as well, and good luck to you and your better half. xo

I am in the exact same position as you love. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and I am so ready for a baby its untrue. I made the choice to wait until I get through uni and have a stable way of supporting my baby. I have a great family but I dont want to to be relying on them constantly, do you? my boyfriend and myself decided I should get an inplant to prevent any accidents. that way when im truly ready I can give my baby everything it deserves and needs.

maybe your in a better financial position than I am, maybe you’ve planned out all of the technicals of havin a baby. if so then I wish you all the best and all my love x