WHat makes me and my step mom hate each other so much?

Ok well my mom and da got divorced when I was 7 and I didnt care because my dad was slighty abusive. My dad got re married first and I love the woman and her 3 kids!! We got along so well. But then she started being really strict towards me and my brother. She would stat colling my mom a bitch and other names and always accusing my as a liar. I tried to shrugg it off but she wouldnt stop. Well im 15 now and im fighting back I’ve tried being good girl but shes called me my brother and my mother names for too long!!! And she treats my dad like crap!!! But I think hes afraid of being alone so he wont divource her! THis recent christmas my step mom caleed my lil brother a demon. And that we were going to hell. So I screamed at her see you there and then she pushed me so I pushed her back and tried to go around her but she wouldnt let me so we got into it. Im tired of her sht and I wont take it anymore. Im about to have to go to my dads house in a few hours…so I need to know why we cant get along and if theres any easy ways to endure it because it wont stop.

Answer #1

Maybe you can ask her what her real problem is with you (nicely).. I think she’s getting a little carried away, talking about your mother and all. Your dad shouldn’t allow her to talk down to any of you.

Answer #2

yea I’ve tried tellig my dad but he doesnt take my side because the step mom ripped away his balls a and took over . and plus he doesnt like makeing her mad because then he cant “get some”

Answer #3

Tell your dad I mean she is traying to take a spot that does not belong to her.

TEll your dad and let her know what is going on he should take some control.

Answer #4

yea you guys thanks but like I think she doesnt like me because of my mother. She always hated my mom they went to highschool togetrher. And I think she mad because she was my dads first.

Answer #5

this is what id say to her: bitc whats your problem? lol just take her out of the room and talk to her about it. ask her whats up.. EVEN IF shes being a total bitc then. just get up the nerve to ask. and after that, talk to your dad about it. hope I helped

Answer #6

Maybe you should try keeping your space between her it might help and try asking her what her problem is or what does she not like about you.

Answer #7

Talk to her about it. Face to face. Ask her why she is so mad and if you are causing it. If you are ask what you can do to help. If she’s the cause then try to have her change her ways. If she physically abuses you though I would notify the police because a friends’ step dad almost stabbed him… So I don’t trust step parents too much after hearing about that..

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