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what is with this girl (girls answer this please)?

im a guy. I liked my best friend a lot (girl) for like a year. it started to affect our friendship so when I went away for the summer I came back and pretended not to like and told everybody I was over her. We’re still best friends but I get really really jealous and depressed whenever shes with other guys or flirting with them. I just want her to like me and want to hang out with me. What can I do to make her like me more?

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Answer #1

when she knew I liked her it wasn’t like we were becoming not friends. It wasn’t even awkward. it was just different. she mostly ignored it which was a good thing.

I just don’t think I can tell her. I just don’t want to look obsessed truthfully. because if she knows that her best friend really really likes her, then shes going be freaked out and I’ll lose one of my best friends yet.

Answer #2

if she’s really your best friend, you should be able to tell her anything and she won’t care. so tell her how you feel about her and see what she says! if she likes you, this will be big bonus points for you (:

Answer #3

if your bestfriends, that must mean that you two can talk to eachother about everything/anything, well then talk to her, about everything first ask her who she likes & stuff like that and at the end just ask her how she feels about you,

Answer #4

hey you need to tell her how you feel xx

Answer #5

Did you guys actually date or was it just awkward because she knew she you were into her and she didnt feel the same way? I would say just be there for her.. If shes just flirting with other guys theres gonna come a time when she opens her eyes and decides she wants more than just a guy to flirt with. If you really like this girl you will find it worth it to wait.

Answer #6

just tell her how you feel

Answer #7

just keep spending time with her and try make her happy and laugh :)

Answer #8

so let me get this straight..

you fancy your best friend, it affected your friendship when you were seeing each other yet you still want a relationship?

ookay…

she doent feel teh same about you so let her live her life… you cant make someone fancy you, it doesnt work that way…

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