What can I do? Girls & Guys answers please?

I’ve known this guy and been friends since pre-k. We basically grew up together. Then a few days ago, he texted me and told me how he really feels about me and I knew he was serious. I like him too, but I don’t want to destroy our friendship. How can I be in relationship with him, without the possibility of breaking our friendship?

Answer #1

Thanks to ya’ll. I said yes to him, and we’re just taking it slow. Like we’re not jumping to big changes right now. But there’s a difference I feel when we’re together :) ♥

Answer #2

Just take a chance! Yes, its scary to think it could ruin a great friendship but everything happens for a reason. If you don’t give it a chance you’ll always wonder, “what if?”

Answer #3

Well iits a chance, yes I do agree with craziangle, that most guys don’t want to be friends afterward, but this guy, well you’ve known each other for so long, I think if something were to happen to your relationship, I think hed still want to be friends, although it would take some time. But talk to him, tell him your concerns, after all he should know you rather well, he would understand you.

Answer #4

I think you have to take a chance.Because if things dont work out most guys dont want to be friends afterwards,but he could be different I don’t know?If you two do go out let him know right away or maybe before that if things dont work out you stilll want to be friends with him.See what he says and I hope everything goes well!:)

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