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hmm well it depends, situations with ex’s can get complicated. first of all you need to figure out why the relationship ended, logically, without laying blame on anyones shoulders. then you have to think about the negative and positive things in the relationship to decide whether its really the relationship with him that you want back, or if youre just thinking of the good memories. … and you really have to think, about whether or not he’s good for you … if after that you still think that you want him in your life you have to approach him, and not in a pushy aggressive way, but just call him or text him, or email/ myspace whatever kind of communication you have with him and ask him if you guys can talk…and ask him about whether or not he still has feelings for you. because if he does he’ll tell you, since he’ll want you to know that he still wants you in his life. if he doesnt that its going to be pointless to try to get him back since if his feelings for you have gone away you’ll just be pushing yourself on him to the point where he wants nothing to do with you [sorry if that sounds a little harsh] .. and the conversation will be a little hard to have since it has to do with feelings and hearts that might end up hurt, but in the end, its better to know if theres still something there or if there isn’t, instead of just wondering what could have been. I know from personal experience, that its easier to live with the truth then to continuously torture yourself with the question does he want to be with me or not.

hope that helps :) message me if you want to talk about it more

Hes an ex. You two broke up for a reason. There are TONS of fish in the sea, dont sit & dwell on the past! Its did, & done, and the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on! Give someone else a chance.