What is going on between son & step dad?

You might be scared to ask, but if your sons are in danger, how do you think they feel??? Take your scared-ness, and double that by 1000!! Step up! Be a mom, question these things. Kids tend to lie, and if it’s a step dad, they tend to lie a lot because they feel like step dads will never replace the real one, but if your kid isn’t lying and the step dad is sexually abusing them, You’ll have more emotions than just being scared after you find out. You’ll have anger, because you’ll want to kill the guy who hurt your kids, you’ll be sad that your kids had to go through it, scared that you let someone like that into your kids life, this can all lead to depression and depression is NOT healthy. Put your scared emotions aside and do something even if you have the slightest hint something might be wrong, take that gut feeling and go with it because your gut is 95% right.

If your wrong, it’s not the end of the world, we all make mistakes, and if the step dad was just trying to be a buddy, he should understand your concerns for your children. If he doesn’t then he was never that great a guy to be with. No offense, I’m just saying! FIND OUT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!

TAKE OUR ADVICE, if you can’t take your own gut feelings advice, take ours before something worse happens! PLEASE!

Yeah That Could Beee…im Not saying it is Tho How old is your Son? an Why would he Tell you That if He Wernt Telling the Truth? Sooo Could Beee… There Can Be Many Reasons Why your Son May think That Tho. Well I dont think you Can really do Anything Unless He’s Letting your Kids watch it tooo! But if he Does that Alll The Time theres a problem an Thats Not a Good Example to set For your Kids…if he Contines Doing that An it Gets even Worse I wouldnt just Stand back an Let it gooo…you Should Con Front Him about it He Shouldnt Be doing that Kind of Stuff around your Kids But Only if you Know your Son is Postive an Certain about it…

I think you definately have to speak to him about this and let him know its unnacceptable. This is not a good role model for your sons, maby he doesnt realise and its just him not thinking, I’m not suggesting you end the relationship but have a discussion about this, It is obviously bothering you and not right. TC xx

My son is 5 and the other son is 7months. I was so caught up with working I was never at home for about 4 months. Now Im layed off so Im with them all day. There is little things that lead up to maybe something happened sexually but Im scared for me & my sons. How do I ask my son more without causing problems and How do I confront the step dad?

There’s 3 possibilities:

1. He’s a pervert. If they’re not yet in puberty it’s definitely wrong. If they’re teenagers but he’s harrassing them it’s also very wrong. If this is the case, go to the police and report the man. You need to protect your son.

2. But then, if they’re teenagers, maybe he’s trying to do the ‘I’m your best buddy’ thing. Fathers will sometimes give a beer or a p0rn vid to their sons to show them that they’re considering them equal and adult and that the son can come and talk about everything. If it makes your son feel arkward and he doesn’t want it, tell the stepfather to stop doing that. Not all teenagers want dad to be their best buddy.

3. Teenagers sometimes tell lies. So if the relationship between your son and the stepfather is very bad, he might be saying so to get teh man out of the house.

What you can do: Talk to the boys. Find out what’s really going on. Find out how they feel about it. If they need help, help them.

okay investigate but when hes not home when your son knows more info tell him to tell you okay good luck :]

let me just say this: its better to be embarrassed and wrong, than ignore it and your son be right..ya dig?

You need to help them, I don’t even know why you are even questoning this. If your sons are under age this is wrong. Plese do something!! He could do something worse and this could turn out really bad. I’m almosr beggin!! Plese help them

GOOD LUCK:)

He could be a sex addict, and maybe feels his wife would be embarrassed or upset if she found out, so he goes in there to get away from her? That’s a bit sick though in my opinion, of the kids being in there…I can understand if they were out of the room and he was single… but having them in the room that’s just sick! Maybe he’s a sicko, not saying he is but maybe…You’ll need to investigate more on it, and confront him before it goes out of hand…

erm… how old are your sons?