What do you think of a 14 year old going out with a 18 year old?

Sounds like there is more issues hidden here then you are willing to admit.

Let’s put age aside for a moment and focus on what your feelings are for this friend of yours. I find it strange that your first instinct is to “beat the crap out of him”. You seem to be over-reacting a tad bit by taking the blame off her. After all, she is not being forced into dating him or sexually experimenting with him. She is doing this out of her own free will. Beating him up (which is against the law by the way) won’t change the fact that she might have feelings for him and want to be with him despite what you think or feel.

If you want to be a good friend explain to her why you think he isn’t right for her. Don’t just say, it’s wrong. Explain it in a caring way, tell her it’s because you worry and care for her. Explain to her that you fear her being manipulated and hurt by an older guy. Tell her all this and then learn to respect her choices (even the bad ones). Friends need to support eachother, talk to eachother and be honest, not threaten or badger or manipulate eachother.

I understand what you guys are saying, but I don’t think he even likes her. when ever he walks by in school my friend says high, but he just ignores her. And it seems the only time he wants to see her is to make out with her and stuff like that. I think hes just looking for a quick f**k and then break up with her

when I was 14 I went out with 2 19 year olds. the furst one was a creap and hurt me both imotionaly and physicly. the second was the love of my life, we’re still together and are now ingaged. it’s got nothing to do with how old he is or how old she is. unless she doesn’t want to do the things she’s doing with him you shouldn’t do anything. just be there for her, be someone she can talk to and let her fined her own way.

violence doesn’t solve anything. I know someone who broke a guys arm and ribs because he was beatting his girlfriend up and she still went back to him.

just be a friend and stand by her. in the words of the frends theam tune “I’ll be there for you when like I’ve been there before”

ggood luck with doing what your heart says is rite.

its not the age differance between them its a mituraty (her having the upper hand here) guys lk thta act lk they did in the 3rd grade so they try to currupt the other people