What do you do when your wife hates having sex with you?

There isn’t anything wrong with you at all. Like the others said she has a problem with herself. Its a rather difficult thing, she isn’t proud of herself when in reality she is everything you want a girl to be. I think its best to lay of the sex for a while until she feels ready for it. Sex isn’t something that can be compared to a chore, its an enactment of love and trust. Have a talk with her about why she is like that and if there is anything you can do to make it more enjoyable for her. Keep this in mind sex isn’t solely about you. She has her needs as well when it comes to love making and you should be fulfilling them with pleasure.

I think its time to show your wife how much you love her, not by sex but with other things. Even something as small as making breakfast for her can make a big change. Little things are the ones that she will notice more. Try to spend a whole just solely dedicated to her do whatever she asks for without question.

I’m not sure if the children may have an effect on her mood, it’s a possibility so I wouldn’t leave it out. I personally feel though that your trying to get the wrong thing out have of her. Sex isn’t what matters sure you want sex but if she doesn’t then whats the sense in that? Instead of you trying to initiate sex; let her do it. When she is ready she will come for you. Right now though, try to make her feel beautiful and that she is the greatest women in the world. I know it might take a long time before you have sex but if you love her then you can wait as long as you need too.

When in doubt bring her mood up, be the one that she can go too alright. Try to make life spontaneous for her not just with movies but with every other aspect of life. You can always try going out to have a romantic dinner (so long as you have a trusted babysitter for all the kids). I really think though that you should let her decide when she wants sex, and when she does want it. Make it as great as possible. Put your needs aside and focus solely on her. Screw the thought of getting blowjobs or hand jobs or anything like that. When you do get the chance to have sex, dedicate it solely to pleasing her. Make it slow, passionate and wonderful for her.

Hope this helps