my wife hates sex

Mix it up a bit. Roleplay, by some sex toys and/or some lubrican’t. Get out there, spice up your sex life. Ask her what she wants. Inivite someone she wants, have a 3some or 4some.

i guess she just doesn’t like that doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you i mean u have been married for a long time so just wait for her to say she want it to that way you’ll both be satified

Well I would be pissed if she only want me during the times she sees other men. I would feel so mad. I would try sex toys, porn and even bring in another person. If that dont work. Make her feel special floweres, massage, phone calls to make her feel love dont talk about sex cause it may be presuuring her. I am 21 years old and I love…. I mean totaly love sex.. I think it may be the hystectomy may not make her feel like a woman anymore.

ask for an open relationship?

Maybe not porn some women may get offended. I think your wife would lol. Try to make her beautiful but do i it gradually. Dont just throw comments at her evey 5 min and calling her cute nemes at thee end of every sentence because she might just make a comment like “your still not getting any!” you know? Boost her self confudence and try to mix things up. Have a talk with her and stay calm throughout the conversation. Invite KY jelly lol. But remember: sex if a union between two people. Whatever yall decide, you both have to agree on. Work on you communicatiob skills with your wife, and try to get and stay on the same page! Hope it helped!