What do I do to accept my mother's death?

Time hun. You cant possibly expect to get over someone youve known all your life, death in 2 months. You just have to accept it and move on. It depends on how you want to do it. Some people do things they did what there mothers or others like to keep away from reminders. Just remember that shes not feeling any pain now and that she loved you.

I don’t think she’ll want you to be sad. God will take good care of her. May she Rest in Peace. :]

hey, I feel for you. Reading this may or may not help: http://www.meditationsociety.com/week7.html

Read it fully, because depending on your personal beliefs, certain sections of it you may disagree with, just read through it no matter what. Please be sure to do the exercise they offer at the end of the reading. And also, please remember that the internet, as long as it is around, will always serve you with what you are and want. If you type in evil things or bad thoughts, you will get bad in return. Hence, type your problems into google, and walah, you should have an answer. For this situation, it does indeed take a lot of time, maybe a lifetime. But, I do have confidence that it will pass by as a distant memory and you will know that she is always there.

It’s been three years since my aunt died and I’m still not over it and still haven’t accepted it.. time heals all wounds, sometimes it takes longer for some. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone.. a counselor or psychiatrist.. You will never get over it, but it will get easier as time goes by. I’m sorry for your loss and hope for the best for you and your family.

I’m sooo sorry to hear about you mum! it is such a hard thing to live with.. I lost my nan in May 2008 so it’ll be coming up to 2 years soon.. I still find it hard because of her being a family member and me being at an age of understanding!

I can only suggest talking to your friends or even your family. like your sister. if that doesnt help (after giving it some time).. then think about going to see a counsellor??

but dont forget you are still in the early stages of grief so the feeling wont go away anytime soon I do regret to say that but its true.

you need to remember all the good times you shared with her and that she is in the better place now watching over you all and painfree.

hope things start to look up soon :) xxx

I am so sorry (L)

It takes a lot of time to get over someone not being there my uncle died and I wouldnt believe he was gone, I was horror struck it was out of the blue and that was the first time I have ever seen my dad cry, it was an odd sensation! I can believe his gone …

Talk : ) talk to anyone you feel comfortable with!

Cry, Cry with some one

Laugh, Laugh with someone about all the funny memories of her

Think of her positives, times you spent together

Pray for her that she is looking down on you.

Most importanly remember her the way she was.

Once again im sorry

My love and prayers x x x