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What am I supposed to tell my boyfriend?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 years and 8 months. We’re both 15. We do the usual, you know, kiss, touch, blah, blah. No sex! He’s been talking about how he wants to have sex with me sooo bad, but I’m not ready. I don’t want to have sex right now. Im afraid to! There’ll be times where we’ll be standing in my room and we’ll be hugging me and just holding me, and he’ll say “Im ready when you are”. And I blow up when he says that. And I start to cry because I feel like he’s telling me to, in a way. I get sooo angry when he says that. And I’ve told him before that I’d like it if he didn’t say that, but he’s done it a few times. Sure, I tease him about having sex, but I don’t exactly mean it. He’ll ask me where I want to “do it” first, and I’ll answer.. But I don’t know. I just wish he’d stop making me feel guilty for not having sex!

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Answer #1

if your not ready dont loose it to him koz you will regret it!! you should talk to him and tell him how you feel.. and if he decides that thats not what he wants let him go, dont chase him koz then and only then you will know its all about sex to him

Answer #2

You need to really sit down and talk to him about how all of this is making you feel. No one should feel pressured to into having sex. Although you also have to realize that at the same time - you are sending him mixed signals. You are talking about it sometimes with him, you are doing more than just kissing, etc. So him bringing it up could have to do with him thinking that you could have possibly changed your mind. If you care about him - you have to talk to him or you are going to end up doing something you will regret or losing him.

Answer #3

But I know it’s not all about sex for him. I’ve asked him.

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