Hold old must I be to move in with my boyfriend?

I’m 13 and my mum is a controll freak, me and my boyfriend are talking about living together, but my mum hates him, and wouldnt allow it. what age do I have to be to be able to live with him.

Answer #1

I’m not sure in the UK but in the US you must me 18 in most states. At 13 you have several years yet to Enjoy your youth without ruining it. If you move in now with this boyfriend chances are by your 15th birthday neither one of you will be able to stand the other. . . I’m sure you think you understand what love is. . .Well Not yet, you got to learn what respect is first and when you learn to respect your mother you will have the beginning of an understanding of love. . . . I remember when I was young I thought my Parents were control freaks too. (Their house their rules.) After I had a son of my own I understood my Fathers thinking. . . He only wanted to keep me safe. Now My father and I get along well. . . He now has parkinsons and I have to be around to help him alot when he is in a place he doesn’t know. . .( It’s my turn to keep him safe.) . If a time like that comes for you do you want to be able to help the woman that brought you into this world?

Answer #2

Whilst you are classed as a minor you will be your mother’s responsibility. At 13 i can’t understand why you are thinking about living with your boyfriend. If, as a minor, you don’t want to live with your mother there is the care system , but you will find that option an hell of a lot more controlling than your mother. Your mother is prob just doing what a mother does. She cares.

Answer #3

umm first of all you are way to young to be dating like you just got out of elementary. and if you already have plans of moving out with a boy than your mom aint controlling you enough! but you have to be 18 to move out and by that time you two wont even be together its just puppy love lol. but good luck :p

Answer #4

Dude relationships at that young never last. I give you 2 months about. Hahah, little kids are so hilarious. Ya of course your a whole 13 years of age! Why wouldnt it be okay to want to move in a with a boyfriend?! Haha (sarcasm) dear lord. I wont even move in with a boy and im almost 19 years old. Pary, live it up, and appreciate having no responsibilities.

Answer #5

im in yr nine at school and will b 14 in july, so no im not, sorry if it sounds like im biting ur head off, but its kinda a bit silly saying that. hes ot my first boyfriend so u no.

Answer #6

Wow, get it together. You have to be 18. You’re not even old enough to have a job to support yourself. I would be controlling if I was your mom too!!! Just because she cares about you and has house rules certainly doesnt make her a control freak. I’d suggest chilling the heck out. And if you’re boyfriend is anything like your pic, I’d hate him too!

Answer #7

You are 13 not 31. By your user name and the pict. that you have I hope for everyone sake that your mother never stops controlling you.

Answer #8

At 13, why are u entertaining living with your boyfriend? Thats against the law. You have to be 18, which is the legal age before you are aloud to move and be on your own. As mothers we are suppose to be controlling. So we can guide you to do the right thing and stay out of trouble. If your mother didnt care, she wouldnt let you live with her or take care of you. Please way your options before you make a big decision.

Answer #9

you can be 16 and still go to school and live wid someone over 21 or have a child. in alabama

Answer #10

Sorry, but in most states you have to be 18 to move out on your own.

Answer #11

no i mean in a feiw years, cause i wanted to no how long, cause w didnt know if it was 16 or 18 or what. i didnt mean right now

Answer #12

well, thats wear ur rong, ive been going out wiv him 4 6 months

Answer #13

your mom controls you because she loves you dolt.

Answer #14

You are Waaay tooo young!! Listen to your mum!

Answer #15

this is over now, no more answers please

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