watt should I do?

ok so im in a relationship with a guy that I like a lot, nut im falling hard for my bestfriend buty I know he doesnt like me back..and so well I dont want to break up w my boyfriend for a guy who doesnt like me..but I feel bad being w him and think of someone else..and I cant help it every thought I have is suddenly about my bestfriend…watt should I do?

Answer #1

but you see I like this boy before I got my boyfriend..I liked him for a couple years but then I got over him for awile..but after a couple of months of going out with my current boyfriend( who I love!) I ind myself attracted to the other boy( who I loved) agian

Answer #2

and now there is a third guy…hes new and hes soo cute and so nice..and I think im falling in love with the other guy I shouldnt like.. somebody help me!!!

Answer #3

If you like someone else, that’s not fair to your current boyfriend. You’re leading him on. You need to figure out your feelings and decide who you want to be with.

Answer #4

hmm..this depends on how much you like your current boyfriend… you will go though life being attracted to others…but it depends on how you cope with these attractions, you should just respect it as an attraction and move on. But if you let your feelings to get to strong and you constantly think about the other person, it might be a good idea to stop and think about your current relationship is with your boyfriend. Do you love your boyfriend? is this just a lustful attraction with the other person? (because lust usually wears off pretty quickly)? and would it be a good idea to assess your current relationship?…it could be because you’ve been in the current relationship for a while and it’s human nature to want to try something new and exciting, but is it worth losing your boyfriend?

Hope that helps, very hard to explain..been in the same situation, but I ignored it and got over the attraction pretty quickly, glad I left it how it is, but that is because I had a good think about it first.

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