guys in my house; room; why dont my parents trust mee.

well my dads okay with guys in da house or in my room. he has no problem with it.

but my mom doesnt allow itt, and I don’t know whyy! we don’t do anything sexuall, most we do is go on da computer; talk; or play board gamess :P

why cant she fre*king trust mee? its driving me crazyy >:/

im 13 by the way is that a young age to be havin guys over like wth?

help? chankss(:

Answer #1

I think your mum is being totally reasonable things can get out of hand really soon.But if you want to have boys inyour room doing nothing then your gonna have to make your mum see he’s harmless. Here’s what you do: Invite him around a few times. Ask weather he can come to tea or dinner. Let your mum talk to him, have a convo with him. Do what you do in your room in the living/family room. Then ask weather you can go to your room. She’ll see he’s just a friend and you don’ do anything and let you. But remember to always leave your room when she says.

Answer #2

I think your parents are being totally reasonable. You don’t know what can happen but I would try just going out a few times wih him first, then invite him around but DONT go to your room. Let your mum see he’s okay. Let her talk to him, have a conversation let her find out about him what he like and all that stuff. When she’s fine with him in the house then you can hang around in your room.Not for a long time at first and alway come out of your room when she wants you too. Your mum’s just worried, your only 13 it may seem like your older than you actually are but be happy your mum cares mine don’t and I’m 14.

Answer #3

girls are pronoun to do things like that but eany wayzzz it aint like you am gonna do enifin saexual

Answer #4

Your Mom’s doing her job looking after your best interests, loving you, and CARING - many, many, parents don’t - they’re not stupid, they know the temptations involved - you’re waaay too young !!

Answer #5

Uhm… could it have anything to do with that fact that you’re only 13-years-old? I don’t blame your mom at all, she’s being a proper parent. Could you not talk and play board games somewhere else? You don’t have to be in a bedroom to do that. It’s not that she doesn’t trust you, it’s that you’re a kid.

My parents have always trusted me, they didn’t let me have a guy in my room till I turned 18, and that was only briefly. I never had an issue with that, I’ve always respected this. I’m 19, my parents let my boyfriend in my room but we only sleep in here, I don’t see a point in hanging out in a bedroom.

Answer #6

Parent always think the worse. Always think that you are sexually active when you around any boy. And with you being 13… your mom is just scared. To her, you are still her little baby and doesnt want you growing up to fast. Just respect her. understand her concerns. But let her know that you are not even considering being sexually active at your age It may reassure her.

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