underage pregnancy

I am 15, I had sex with my ex girl friend and we split-up a week later. a month after that she told me that she was pregnant and he was going to be called luka. I have a new girl friend now and im going to tell her tomorow about my unborn son. if she takes it well, I will feal a lot better, because I will have atleast 1 person in the world that cares. if not then my life is not worth living. my dad will b very disapointed in me and my mum will kill me. has anyone got any comforting advise for me

Answer #1

Whether you like this girl or not, you’re going to have a son. I would focus on supporting your new son and make him your whole world. You’re only 15 and this is alot of responsibility. And never say your life is not worth living. You matter to your unborn son. You’re only 15, who knows if this new girl will take it well or not but in the whole picture it doesn’t really matter at the age of 15. Focus on school and work so you can support this baby and get better education so you can give him the world.

After the initial shock I bet your parents will be happy to have a grandchild, they will love you and him unconditionally no matter what.

Answer #2

hey! im 15 and im pregnant right now, im due in 7 weeks and realli. its not easy! im super excited and i know im gunna be a great mom and everything but its MUCH more than that. and that something everyone including you should understand. when you have a baby YOU are no longer and NEVER will be first again. this child of yours will always come first before your own needs. im still in school and so is the father. you need to do the same. dropping out only makes things worse! even if your short on cash there is many places that will help! i dont know how your new girlfriend toke it. but weither she toke it well or not! dont even worry about it! anyone whos not willing to accept your past isnt worth dealing with! i dont know if your friends or close with your ex but you should try to be.. maybe even try to get back together. im not with my babys daddy, i would love to be, but he has other feelings… but that doesnt change the fact about him being there for our son. i know your only 15 and you probably dont wanna grow up and take responsability for your actions but you have to! a little life depends on it! i have mountains of advice i mean im going threw the same thing pretty much! but i cant say much more than just be strong and be there for her and your child! you wont regret it once you see your beautiful babys face :)

if you ever wanna talk more! im more than willing.. if you have hotmail or something, feel free to e-mail me. im always on the computer :)…xo_ameigh_ox@hotmail.com

GOOD LUCK AND BEST OF WISHES!xoxo

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