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Too tight?

I dont finger myself a lot but when I do it always seems to hurt …and I just got out of a long term relationship…im 16 and we were sleeping together. We did stuff quite regularly and he always started by fingering me but it still seemed to hurt…he wasnt that big either…I have been with not only him…like I’ve done stuff with other guys and he is the 3rd guy to tell me that im “too tight” I dont no what to do and im scared that this is really bad :( I dont no what to do…please help me with some advice??? I dont want a bad sex life…all I wanna do is please the guy but is there such thing as “too tight”???

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Answer #1

wow I’ve never heard of ‘too tight’ before. I’ve always thought the guys like when its tight…hmm..tell him to stop complaining! lOl its not your fault! And usually lotsa guys like it tight because it feels better and more snug on there whoohaa! ^.^

Answer #2

just take it slow have a guy try to get you wet instead of urself trying to do it and get a guy to go down on you need any help ask me its all good in the neighborhood

Answer #3

Just when you finger yourself keep it slow. Don’t go too fast. Relax and start out slow, use one finger, then when it gets looser go to two.

Answer #4

haha we did…nah dw its k u’ve been a great help…I’ll just give up

Answer #5

I do…I only end up using one finger…I can finger myself for ages just dont get wet enough to be able to use two…

Answer #6

yeh and like I was with the same partner for like 6 months…and we had sex a fair bit and it still hurt like when he went in..wtf

Answer #7

tighter is better. maybe you just need to relax more. try a lot of fore-play before penetrative sex, should help wth relaxation.

Answer #8

Have you tried rubbing your clit? Or even the g spot?

Answer #9

the tightest is theee bestt =]

Answer #10

I think its better to be “too tight” thn to be “too loose” !

Answer #11

Hmmm… well, explore around, use lube if you need.

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