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My girlfriend is too tight, what can we do?

My girlfriend’s vagina is so tight that I don’t fit. When we have foreplay and I finger her, my middle finger alone causes her pain most of the time. I like her and want to please her so we have oral, but I know it bothers her. We have tried lubes and that has helped a little. I don’t mind trying things to help and just want her happy and able to enjoy sex and not be in pain. Does anyone have any thoughts?

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tbh I have the same problem and find that lube helps a bit, I heard that it will loosen apparently after sex, not straight away but after regular sex it would & after having a baby it always a bit looser but I dont suggest trying the baby lol I found that after bearing the pain and trying to fit more in that it feels slightly looser but not too much, or maybe I just dont feel the pain anymore because you get used to it, some girls dont even get pleasure from being fingered, I know I dont, so maybe you should try other ways.

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