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Too many arguments.

I’m arguing with my parents far too much. My older sister (shes 15) Is really quiet and never gets into trouble. I’m like the total opposite. I just get really pissed off so easily! I’m a 13 year old girl. I hate it when I argue with them, I feel so bad but I just hate people telling me what to do, how to live my life. I feel liek im horrible and “the difficult one” in the family. but I REALLY cant help it! I just flip. suggestions on how to control myself..?

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Answer #1

The best way to avoid arguments…AVOID them. Stay in your room and do your work..do whatever they ask of you quietly. That way, they can’t criticize you and they would probably end up leaving you alone. The lesser the fights, the better mood your entire family would be in and eventually it will be a barney moment. Trust me.

Answer #2

Remember, when your parents are gone… You’ll regret it if you continue and don’t say sorry.

Answer #3

when they do or say something that makes you mad then take deep breaths and count to ten before you say anything.

you should also talk to them about it. I am the same way, so if you want to talk more funmail me :)

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