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Today me and my mom got in a argument over nothin

I am 16 years old today me and my mom got in a argument over nothing! And she said some really mean stuff it makes me not like her at all even though she is my mother! But I was helping cleaning the house and I bumped into her and she thought I meant to do it and thats stupid!…and honestly I am really good I am almost 17 and I dont have no boyfriend …I never brang a guy home…and I never run away I always try to fix problems with my family…but today she told me I am a dirty a$$ btch and whor and ho3 and that what really rude cause I am a really good kid and I am so upset with it I wish I just can run away and never ever come back I never felt this horrible in my life by my mom! I absolutley hate her! And I thought I can talk to her bout stuff I told her I really like this guy he just a friend and he went to jail and she told me im a stupid b*tchh for being here for him! Dont you think I should do what I feel?!! Now it makes me not ever want to tell her anything ever again I wish I was never brought to this world!! What the heck should I do someone please help me

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Answer #1

well what I think that is a good I dea is just talking to her and let her know how you feel and your feelings towards what you want to do because of the big fight. Has she always acted this way? Has she been a good mother growing up? If you answer yes to all these questions then I would givr her another chance!

GOOD LUCK:(

Answer #2

No I don’t think you should run away. You said that you fix problems with your family by yourself…you’re going to have to fix this the same way. Running away is never a solution to a problem, it’s the cowards way out.

Maybe your mom was just having a bad day (everyone is allowed to have them). That doesn’t excuse her actions but it could explain them. Talk to her, tell her that you’re hurt by what she said (however wait till you and her calm down first). Tell her that you’re sorry you bumped into her but it really was an accident. Try to stay calm that way another fight doesn’t start.

Good luck

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