Should I take a pregnancy test yet, or what is the next step?

My husband and I are not trying but we will would be grateful to have another little wonder join our family if God blessed us with a little baby. We have our names planned out and he’s told me he ‘ wouldn’t mind if I was pregnant ‘ which is him being funny because he has no other choice if I am.

Although the problem seems to be that I honestly don’t know whats going on with my body. My husband can’t really help either. I wont ask my mother just yet because she’ll panic and if I’m not pregnant then I’d rather just let it go instead of dealing with all the stress from the families. So no family ties into this matter yet is a smart first step.

My symptoms have been; lower back pain comes and goes, headaches most all of the time, faint, ill (neausea) when I smell things after I eat, my breat are sore and heavy, I am moody and over emotional, I am feelng lower abdominal pain worse than as if I’d just have gas, I crave things and have gained a couple of unexpected weight. I will get the best nights rest and still wake up exhausted and end up taking a nap before work. 1 to 2 hours after I woke up in the morning. I feel my belly and it full or hard like feeling to it. It’s like before I could suck in and use my stomach mussels but nope.. it’s different. Take it this way, I took the ‘ Am I pregnant test ‘ online and I got a 50% chance I was pregnant. Pretty sure this is the weird thing thats got my flipped and fusterated.

My last period which usually lasts up to 6 days and 32 days in between cycles was May 20, 2007. I got it at 3 in the afternoon. When I got back from vacation visiting family, my husband and I on the 25th had sex. He’s been coming by my vagina and has also came in me a little longer. We use no protection because we aren’t not trying to get pregnant as much as we are trying to get pregnant. It’s a mutral situation. We enjoy making love and if and when it happens it will or does. I do remember a time in the last 4 weeks that we made love and he came in me. Quite possibly half of his sperm.

I was all set and sure I was pregnant because of all the symptoms and then on June 16th I might of had implantation bleeding. Unsure. Again, it was a light brown color on my toilet paper which confused me because it was light and I was also 3 days early even if it was my period. So for the 16th and 17th I had light brown. Then this morning I wiped and it was a little more blood like.. no so much heavy though. Normally by my third day it’s flowing heavy but nope, nothing on the pad.

I’m not quite sure whats going on. If I’m pregnant I’d like to know so I can start on the right foot as a good mother, if not I’d like to go run and walk off the fat I had gained for no particular reason. If I am eptoic pregnant I am going to flip and then be also extremely sad if I miscarried a baby.

Should I still take a pregnancy test? When can I take a blood test? I need to find out as soon as possible to let myself know whats going on because I am feeling very worried, stressed, and fusterated with myself. I want to know why I’ve felt like this these past weeks and now I’m bleeding which throws the entire thought process off.

I don’t want to tell my loving husband I’m pregnant if I’m not. - And please don’t think I’m not pregnant because of the bleeding because my friend told me she had normal cycles while she was pregnant.

By the way, I’m 22 and my husband is 23. We’ve been married for 2 year, dating for 7, and 16 years we’ve known each other. We’re best friends, and spouses. We’re ready. SO

Whats the deal?