Teen Pregnancies?

this made me laugh lol I guess its because they think they no what there doing but in all reality there completely clueless..

Most young girls are abandoned and unloved.or feel the need to be loved always and 4ever so they have a baby some to keep there boyfriends so they have a baby some think it’s the IN ‘thing’ so they have a baby Some think they can handle it and its so bloddy easy -so the have a baby And well the rest are so f-ing STUPID - no condoms no pill and pulling out ALLL don’t WORK! YES you will get pregnant and NO it wont go away! Its not fun its not cute it’s bloddy HARD WORK!

no…no don’t have a kid so young without marraige it will only make you unhappy single stuggling mother and a fatherless kid don’t do this to your self or your child think you need to enjoy life have fun first, fing god take bible studies or something tohelp you make better choices in life didn’t you learn anything from your parents life is hard without the extra drama so young use you brain god gave you one

I agree with everything said so far…

But

If you take out the human element and social rules… they are doing what nature is telling them too… they are just too weak minded to think it through and get beyond that animalistic instinct to reproduce.

That’s my theory anyway.

xox Sika

Unfortunately, I see a very sad side to these young girls trying to have a baby. I feel that these are girls who feel very abandoned and unloved. They very much want someone to love them, and who they can love back. It is a human bonding that they are seeking. But these unfortunates are not going to find it with a baby. Oh, it IS there, but it takes a mature out look to see past the unpleasant parts and recognize that the bond is fulfilled only after a long struggle and a bumpy ride.

Ignorance is a big part of today’s world. Often, teens are immature and do not realize the responsibilities that taking care of a baby bring. Also, a lot of teenagers watch TV. Which is like false advertising because television shows can make teen pregnancy seem like not a big deal. In other words, teenagers can often be manipulated by what they see on TV and are therefore, ignorant to reality.

mainly because they dont understand how hard raising one actually is, how much of a responsibility it is and how much a babie can cost taking care of a baby isnt like taking care of a doll but because those kids are young they dont really understand how hard and how much work is involved like how hard it was for there mum to raise them, they wouldnt understand that now, at their age

I think it’s just a lack of maturity.Babies are cute and funny. And some can’t yet see past that.

Kittens and puppies are cute and funny too - and very young children often demand that they get one. I think its the same thing. The young children aren’t aware of the cost of food, the walks, the vet bills.

brian92 also makes a good point, celebrities on tv make it look like having a baby is easy, you dont see the birth,all the crying, pooping, puking,sleepless nights, ect. and the mother usually gets rid of her baby weight very quickly, making it seem like everything involved doesnt take much time

I dunno I dunno! God help me! What gets to me is this and people being stupid and asking “Am I pregnant?” and saying “ok I had sex on the 13th of such and such a month, I feel this, I feel that, am I pregnant?” and usually its some stupid 13 or14 year old girl.

personally i think that if u are in the right frame of mind at the time then u can raise a baby no bother and become as good if not better than a person in their 30th! I have 2 kids and im only 18 my youngest is 7 months and my oldest is 4 i was only 13 when i found out i was pregnant and tho very hard i got through it and i think i gave my kids a great life because they are happy and healthy so what more could you ask for! My advice to any other teen mom is if u feel in any way u can’t handle them then ask for help! Also anyone who offers to take them off for a few hours like ur mum or somebody of course then accept and use that time not to sleep or anything but just to do what u like to do like straighten your hair, watch tele, just relax and when the baby comes back you wil be very calm and also very excited to see and play with the child!