Why is everyone getting so mad over teen pregnancys?

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Chakram, I am not married the father left me after I told him the condom broke and that I am pregnant.

kenzie101, I don’t believe she was saying that teen pregnancy is no big deal. I think she meant that they are already pregnant and you can’t change that. This is a site for advice. So, people should not be so quick to judge when one makes a mistake. Instead they should listen to the person and give the advice being asked for.

I think people get angrier at the young girls who purposely try to get pregnant or have pregnancy scares like once a month. To make one mistake is understandable. To never use protection and then each time get worried that you are pregnant is a completely different thing. When young girls come on this site and they do this people get mad at the immaturity, lack of responsibility, and in some cases extreme ignorance.

teen pregancy isn’t something to take lightly. now im not one of those so called people that go off on teens for being pregnant, but for you to sit there and basically say that its not that big of a deal is ridiculous. you should be asking yourself why do I think that teen pregnacy isnt a big deal?

im not trying to offend you or upset you but think about it, a 15 year old girl having the responiblity for another human being, even a 16 or 17 year old is ridiculous. no offense. but most of them can’t even decide what they want to do with there lifes let alone what to do with another childs future. that is why people go off on teens for being pregnant.

some might say stuff on here to let out anger or express how they fell on a sittuation. and to try to help them realize the difficult decisions they will be facing.

by the way im only 16

some people think that teenager are stupid and no offense. people think that they’re not responsible. or dont have a steady job to afford the expenses on a baby. also, that teenager wont get a degree or wasted a lifetime on a baby. ect.

Seriously I love how people judge and say stuff when they have never even been in the situation. Just because you have a baby as a teen dosnt mean you deserve to be treated like shit. I had a baby as a teen and he is going to be two and I’m still in high school he is taken care of better then I have ever been so if your gonna voice your opion no what your talkin about first and when I came on here for advice when I was pregnant all I got was your crazy you have issues please give that baby away.

it is not really that they are mad at that girl but really they are mad at the fact that there are so many girls. it looks like they do not take it serious. maybe you all are..who knows but it is coming to look more like a trend. it is much easier to get on the pill then raise a child … ever notice? but I actually rather see pregnant girls walking around compared to then lining up at the abortion clinic. just take care and hope for the best :) okay people?

maybe cause they were there and know how it is and they don’t want that to happen to others. Pregnancy in teens was never a thing to be taken lightly. Teenage mothers pretty much are weighed down by their children, they’re going to have a hard time finding a job. Let alone find someone to support them. ‘’They’’ get mad because you basically threw your life down the drain because you wanted a kid at a young age and thats never a good choice to make. Evaluate what it is your doing, pregnancy is a big thing and teenagers are never ready for the responsibility of taking care of a child.

maybe because they care about others and are trying to knock some sense into them

Are you married?

Some good news about my pregnancy is my boyfriend showed up at my door today and said I was an idiot for leaving you and our daughter(we are having a baby girl!!!) Then he got down on one knee and said those 4 words every girl wants to hear. Yes, he proposed!!!

I’m a teenage mother and I am currently in medical school, top of my class. All the while I still find time to spend time with my 5 year old daughter and my husband. So teen mo