I can't talk to girls. I have tried everything. MANY people have tried to help me but nothing worked. The last time I was able to talk with one w

I still thank you for your respond ;)

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just make small talk say hi or ask her name n even if your nervous or you blush dont be afraid like thats adorable many girls love a shy guy and were human ha were just like you so dont feel so nervous n if you screw up who cares theres alot of girls out there maybe practice like at a fair or a carnival somewere were your never gonna run into them again.

You’re welcome dude but hmmm, I have a question: Can you be more specific about this problem? I mean explain exactly what you are feeling. This is not good…..you have to fix this. I’ll help ya if I can.

From a girls perspective… you seem to be a mysterious type. You keep to yourself. You tend to hide and you definitely are not a dog, lol!

Believe it or not, some girls dig that. Some girls like those type. It allows them to chase after you. And some will, if they are brave enough. I think it goes both ways. Some girls are the super shy type and the sight of a guy, the littlest hint of a guy showing interest in them makes them run miles! IN HEELS! Even if they’re aren’t a runner LOL

What I’m trying to say is… don’t try to change yourself. Be who you are because there is a girl out there who understands your ways, and she wouldn’t want you to change. She’ll just know how to handle you. And that’s what matters.

Stop reading guides and all that. Everyone is individual, you can’t just read one guide and expect to be able to talk to any girl in the world. I think you just need to understand that girls are not scary! We’re just people. If you’re standing next to a girl, any girl, just say hi, how are you? And go from there. Just pretend like she’s a guy you just met. We really aren’t that different when it comes to small talk.

kk, I will try to explain. When I am near a girl my mind basically goes blank, I just have no idea what to do. I become nervous and I try to get distance between me and the girl. Even if I am in a group of boys and a girl comes in while I am talking I will just immediatley be quiet.

ok, I understand what you mean. But on the other hand I can’t really change who I am anyways because I am pretty successful if you don’t include the fact of the problem that I have at the moment XD. I guess a big part of this is just patience

yea, I don’t really think the guides really helped me too much anyways but I did try to imagine that one is a guy that I just met. It didn’t work very much either ;) Maybe the day where I will try it will eventually come though

The thing about carnivals is that the girls always hang out in groups.

Being quiet isn’t a bad thing because that keeps you from saying something stupid when your nervous. But, you are letting this mess you up too much. What are you trying to accomplish? Conversation or just getting one to notice you? Try as I said and just ask them something to break the ice. You gotta take the plunge dude and quit worrying about this…………they are just people. Don’t feel inferior. Try it when no guys are around……..Just face your fears because that’s the only way to tackle them…………..then you start learning how to communicate with the ladies. Think of a question or something you want to say then just do it………..for example: ‘that’s a cool pair of shoes” or “how are your classes going?”. When you become more confident, you will say things like “damb you did an awesome job fixing your hair this morning….it looks nice” A tasteful compliment always goes a long way with the gals…………:)

My goal is to just have a conversation so I can just be friends with a girl. And ok, I will try to face my fears (Even know I don’t think I will successfully be able to do it). School starts up again tomorrow so I have a whole school year time to try my luck :D

Your gonna do fine…………the best way to “have” a friend is to “be” a friend. You are nervous about school starting and want to fit in especially with a girl or two. I might seem old but listen, there are tried and true ways of getting a girls attention / respect………..You don’t really have to impress them……..just be a nice guy and a gentleman…and always be cool. If you see a girl walking with a bunch of books for example, make sure you open the door and hold it open for her. If she drops her pencil, pick it up and hand it to her, let her go ahead of you in line………..you don’t have to say a word to do these things. Just always treat the girls with respect and eventually things will work out for ya. But don’t let em run over ya either because some of them will do that but that’s a whole other story for later on in your life…………….for now, stop worrying about this and do as I have told you and it will all come together oneday…………guaranteed.

ok, cool. I will just see what I am able to do. I thank you again very much ;)

then go with your friends(: or ask her hey do you wanna go on a ride with me (: bam that works haha like dont be shy ik its hard i personally blush alottttt like alot alot haha but practice makes perfect!

I don’t really do stuff with friends. :D

Exactly. That’s why I said don’t change lol.

Yea, makes sense.

No problem, hope I helped some…………….good luck

Never change, and don’t take advice from any type of magazine of any sort. You seem like a nice guy who is just timid and I think that is really nice on a guy. Because that means you have a sensitive side to you. :) and many girls love a guy who is sensitive. I believe that you should stop looking for that one special girl, because when you least expect it she will come to you. Maybe not right away but you’ll know when you see her. Remember love at first sight isn’t always true love its the ones that make you smile when you talk to them. Take time to love yourself before loving anyone else. ^_^ i hope my advice helps.

Yes, every piece of advice is a big help to me but I don’t really think I would know which girl would be good for me when I see her. That kind of luck has never happened to me ;)

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

Well love at first sight doesn’t exist, trust me you will know but it takes time to actually know it. :) just be sure not to be picky with what type of girl you want. Because then no girl will take you serious.

kk, I will remember that ;)

No prob. Just let me know how it goes :D

yea, it is going to take a long time though ;)