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Dear christiansgurl, Well you wanted us to know you are handicapped so you do know why your parents are over protective…you answered your own question. How can you change this, only with time. You need to sit with them and speak rationally and with knowledge as to why you should be able to stay home alone. Give them the proof they need to feel that you will be safe. All parents fear for their children and knowing you are handicapped tells us that they would have more fear than others. Sue…good luck

Growing up is very difficult—for both you and your parents. They remember a little bundle of joy that they held and nurtured as a baby and now they see a budding adult. These days, children face things and know about things that their parents would never have imagined at the same age. The teenagers of today look older, act older and want to be older than their counterparts did just 20 years ago. It is the desire of all parents for their children grow up in the way that they should go (loving, caring, respectful, and being of good solid character). It is necessary that you truly understand that your parents have your best interests at heart. They will withhold privileges, set limits, and raise you to the best of their ability (neither they nor you are perfect), but be Thankful - They Care - many, many, many don’t. Ask them for guidance and seek to understand what truly motivates their decisions. One of the best ways to prove your maturity and prove that you are ready for more trust is to be respectful of your parent’s wishes and accept their guidance. Learn how to communicate love, honor, and respect to each other.