How do I stop thinking about this boy that I was going out with for 3 years?

find a new one

like she said up there you should go out with someone else

I agree with lexie. You should distract yourself. Just go out with your friends, have fun and do stuff that wont remind u of him. :)

Go have fun.Take your mind of things.Works great for me.(: I dated a guy for like,a year and a half,Not as long as you dated your guy,But..Still heartbreaks suck.I just went and hung out with my friends,And flirted.Muddbogging is the best .. Jussaying.

when you find yourself thinking about him.just start thinking about someone else.try liking someone new

wow thats a long time, it will be hard to forget but just try to go out with your friends and enjoy life because you only live once :)

Thanks :)

You need to have good self esteem and realize he is not the only guy there is in the world start going out with friends,join an organization like church,animal adoption center or just get your self busy with caring for your self more like looking at your self in the mirror and see how beautiful you are and there r many fishes in the sea there is a guy out there that can replace him just move on and tell your self internally and u will be surprise when u put him out of your thoughts u will see there are others guys interested in you…goodluck

i went through the same thing with a girl i just got my mind off of her and focused on someone else and god

Though I have never dated anyone before, I think I’m rather laid back on the whole relationship-thing; dating is technically a way to find your soul mate, right? So appreciate and don’t regret the time you spent with the person that you’re no longer with right now, but move on. He only put you closer to the one you will be with forever. Go out, have fun. Distract yourself, like everyone else has said, too :)

you should start by focusing on the good things in your life. you are young sweetie, the truth is in life friends come and go and so do boys. you will find love again. in time all wounds heal. when you least expect it a great boy will come along keep your chin up its his loss not yours

just stop thinking about him

listen to happy songs, stay with your ‘girls’ and watch happy films, never anything sad and depressing because that just makes it worse

Thought about trying to date online? It’s like shopping for boys only that you do it on the internet :D With all the offers you’ll find in there you should have no problem realizing that you can have even something better than your ex :) And you can use these tips http://funadvice.com/r/1602d2q0foq