How can I make her stop[2]?

This girl I asked a question about earlier[btw i decided to let it go based on the advice you guys gave me]. Well now likes the same guy I like. I mean she’s free to like who ever she wants to. But I feel like I some how influenced her choice >. .< Like for example he would ask her “oh whats your fave movie?” She would then ask me &I would name a couple. Then she would text him back what i said and say those are hers. & she did this for a couple questions. If he ends up liking him..? he wouldn’t really be liking her for her…? since she does everything I do….I really like this guy. I mean if it happens it happens theres not much i can do about it. but wouldnt he find out sooner or later who she really is..? What do I do?

Answer #1

Well, if I were you I would have a serious talk with the girl. Tell her how you feel, and that it’s not right what she is doing. Then I would have a talk with the guy and explain to him what she is doing, and how it makes you feel. Don’t be shy just because you like him. Tell him everything, even that what she is doing you really aggravates you because you really like him.

Answer #2

wow wow.. Tell him I like him o.o

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Answer #3

yes, if you really like him you should let him know that. It would help keep her from getting him instead of you. Let him know, “hey, the girl you have been talking to has been asking me questions, then turning around and telling you my answers, instead of answering them herself, and it really bothers me because I like you, and she is trying to get you to like her, but she is basically lying to you.” Something like that.

Answer #4

Ah thanks for the help on what to tell him Lol. I’m horrible at trying to explain myself. Incase you couldn’t tell by the way I wrote my question lol.

Answer #5

Well, I am too in person. It really help me to write it instead, especially because I am shy too. Try writing a long letter, explaining in detail what has been going on. This way, you will have a chance to think about what you are telling him. You can take your time in writing the letter, to make sure it makes sense. Also, when you write it down, you can make sure you don’t forget and leave out anything. You know? If you just talk to him, and you are soo nervous talking to him, your not going to be very clear and you will probably leave out a lot without knowing it. Writing it down is a lot easier, and you can read over it a few times to make sure it is all there and exactly what you want to say. If you would like, you can send me some FunMail, I am happy to help with anything. I love giving the best advice I can. :)

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